I am in a long distance relationship. He lives across the country. We want to finally be together, but we both have jobs that we love and he hates the state i live in. I cant move out there because I love my job. But neither of us want to give up this relationship. What is the best answer that wont result in us getting married and finally moving in together when we retire?
Thank you in advance.
I'm in the same boat as you are in because I to am in a long distance relationship with the love of my life but since I have school and I have school and work we can't get together but, like you, we don't want it to end. Onto your question the best advice that I can give you now is maybe take some time off and go visit him or he can visit you – then atleast you two can be together for some time and if that works out then it is meant ot be. Since neither of you can move because of personal requests or jobs short visits are the only possible concept, but that might lead to money issues as well. Sounds like you have something really special going on with you and him and I hope you two do get together and start a life together, before retirement I hope. Sorry if I couldn't be more help.
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I'm in the same boat as you are in because I to am in a long distance relationship with the love of my life but since I have school and I have school and work we can't get together but, like you, we don't want it to end. Onto your question the best advice that I can give you now is maybe take some time off and go visit him or he can visit you – then atleast you two can be together for some time and if that works out then it is meant ot be. Since neither of you can move because of personal requests or jobs short visits are the only possible concept, but that might lead to money issues as well. Sounds like you have something really special going on with you and him and I hope you two do get together and start a life together, before retirement I hope. Sorry if I couldn't be more help.
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Unfortunately one of you will have to move in the end if you want a relationship. Long distance relationships are hard and there are ways to keep it alive, I've kept one alive for 4 years. If neither of you are willing to move to be together then there really isn't any point in trying.
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I think there is no other answer but one should give in and sacrifice. It helps to weight how important the other person is. If you really want to be together and you both love each other, maybe one can sacrifice his/her job and look for another job close to where your partner lives. It is easier to find a job that you like and harder to find someone you really love and loves you back. Just think about what will make you happy first and don't rush things. Good luck on whatever decision you make.
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